Every day, I have between 15 and 75 singles taking my online dating questionnaire, which gives you a good indication of how well you will do in the world of online dating, from writing your dating profile, choosing the right place until you get it. to this (hopefully) to the date of real life. These errors come straight to me Dating test!
Okay, before I started I was reading Michael Dell’s list of 21 life lessons (yes, the guy who started Dell at 19 with $ 1,000 of which I’m a fan) and here’s one: “Try not to be never the smartest person in the room. ” Yes, Mike, I agree, surround yourself with people who inspire you, inspire you, and teach you to be the best, like a top-notch dating coach.
1. Quality / Quantity of responses to your dating profile
Important? You bet! I’ve never had a client tell me as a dating consultant they only give me quantity, I don’t care about quality! If your quantity is high and your quality is low, you are in the right place for you! I had a beautiful 45 year old woman “gifted” for Mother’s Day a 3 month subscription to Tinder — You can imagine (and laugh with her and me) of all the 25 year old men who responded ! He is now in the right place, and is dating men of his caliber!
2. Number of photos published
Absolutely the most important article number 1 online: your first photo. And if you only post one, the game is over.
Okay, you passed the photo test. You posted 6-8; therefore, you are in great shape. Then start looking at potential dates and whether you like them or not. No message. It’s passive! You just hit it again.
4. Answers (B)
I always say that there is an inverse correlation online: smart people make stupid mistakes. This time, you don’t even like it or like it, just sit at home at 9pm with your favorite craft beer and wait for them to arrive. WWWWhat? How are they supposed to know you’re interested? ESP?
5. Answers (C)
Oh, I know you and I are on the same page now. The worst answer is Copy / Paste. “Hello beautiful, I like your photos!” or “I love to travel too.” READ: I’m a burnt bachelor, too tired to try anymore or blame my lack of boring pasta on Hinge, Bumble, my job, my life, my ex, my dog.
You know what? I love what I do. I think I wrote a negative blog, but if you spot any of these errors in your online dating approach, I can really help. I don’t want you to make these mistakes. Because? I’ve been doing this for over 25 years, many clients got married or in relationships and I love guiding you.
Did you know how to do yoga without an instructor? Learning to drive without a teacher? Getting into Harvard Business School without a guide?
Let me do the work for you … so you can have fun!
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