One of the most painful situations a woman can go through is losing a relationship with a man she loves.
It is one of the more painful experiences that anyone can experience, male or female.
So it should come as no surprise that this is one of them most common questions I listen to my readers.
And this question usually comes in one of two flavors:
Q1. How can I get my ex back with me?
P2. How can I beat my ex?
Obviously, these are two clearly different questions, and yet they are completely intertwined.
Because the answer to every question is in the other.
Let me explain …
If you want to beat your ex, you must have decided that you are they don’t want them anymore to get back to you.
If you still have secret desires to be together again, you will find it almost impossible to outdo your ex.
On the other hand: If you to want for your ex to come back to you, you have to find a way to do it overcome them at the same time.
Because the more than you want and you need this ex-boyfriend to come back to you, the least likely is that it will happen.
I don’t care if you use the Law of Attraction (LOA) to focus on it all the energy of the cosmic plane in this a wish…
No amount of demonstration or concentration will make it happen …
No one comes back to you just because you you want it to happen…
Less than anything, a man.
No, a man will only come back to you if you are wondering why did you pass it.
AND HOW you overcame it very fast.
“Hey, why don’t you call me and text me yet? Why don’t you ask me to come back with her?”
That doubt we have inside us, that stain insecurity that we all carry is the seed of his curiosity.
And that curiosity is how you get them come back to you.
Let’s follow these steps:
Ex-Back STEP 1: Go ahead.
Oh, I know you’ve heard that one million and one times.
If you want to get your ex back, you have to start somewhere do not do it really NEED that relationship.
Because when you need the other person, you can’t act on them spine or posture.
You will dig at the first opportunity or opening you see, and yours afany will scare them.
IMAGINE: Your ex suddenly calls you and asks you to see you tonight…
If you don’t see yourself seriously saying to your ex, “Hmmm … I don’t know if we can find each other. I’m pretty busy. Let me talk to you again …”
Most likely: “YES! WHEN? Right now? It’s called! I’ll be there!”
Do you see how this urgency makes you need it?
The only way your ex will probably be entertained is if you can lower your panic.
Which brings us to the next step:
Ex-Back STEP 2: Turn off alarms …
The first thing that keeps couples from being together again is anxiety level this involves being dumped.
Trust me, I know that. Me once called my ex 7 times in an evening to tell him “I understand” and that it would give him some space.
Yes, that it didn’t work so good for me. He basically had to call me stop calling & $ # @ she!
What is happening here is that you are going through a form of abstinence from brain hormones. When you are in love and attached to someone, your brain and body release a lot of hormones to make you feel good.
And when you separate, these chemicals are cut down. That’s when you feel it sweaty panic start to hits your system.
This is where you will most likely make mistakes and get bogged down. Which usually scares your ex-boyfriend.
And it’s a huge one descending spiral from there …
You have to be able to turn off those panic alarms in your head that come out when your “love drugs” are cut off.
No, it is it is not easyBut it is absolutely necessary if you want to avoid sending a growing set of texts that illustrate your panic:
– Well, you there? It’s Lynne …
– Hey, it’s been 7 minutescan you send me a message
– My God, where THEY ARE you Are you giving me the silent deal?
– It’s funny how a boy gets dressed and then May he wants to talk to me again. But MY mistake.
– Take care, Kevin. Have a great life. DELETE MY NUMBER
– I have no friends, and now you’re breaking up with me … Okay. I hate myself …
– I really want to wish you the best of luck … You’re a good man. I don’t know why you would want to be stuck with me…
– Then I guess you won’t talk to me? Please talk to me … I was wrong … I love you… don’t go …
And it gets more and more embarrassing as emotions exhale wildly out of control. Like a hurricane of wounds.
You have to be able to stop this madness before you lose control and do something crazy.
The best way is to simply have a trusted girlfriend who you can call when things are going well get excited.
She can talk to you from the ledge and prevent you from making a potentially horrible mistake like that unilateral text complaint.
Ex Back STEP 3: Take Power …
Once you’ve regained control and you know you can live without this guymost of the time you probably choose it Let it go on his way.
You will notice:
– He it wasn’t so fantastic after all …
– There are best fish over there…
– You will be wasting your time looking for a compromise from him …
But it is also possible that you will consider recovering it, but now you are more relaxed about the whole situation. No need to panic anymore.
You are now in the position of power!
You can choose whether or not to try it again.
And that will do it more interested and involved in you than before – because you he won’t being in that position of need and hurt month.
It’s a great place to be in life, and it’s also where you’ll think more clearly and make better decisions about your relationships.
But if you really want to hold yours in your relationship: you need to know exactly how to connect with a man. At the deepest level.
But to do that, you have to know theirs Connection style. ALL men have this, and there is a total FIVE WAYS a boy connects with his partner.
This is a CRUCIAL piece of the puzzle that will help you decipher the code behind a man’s behavior. I have a video this is explained in more detail.
Do you want to start? Enter HERE now …
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