When we fall in love, the world is an amazing place. It’s like we’re floating. The world gets even better when the person we love wants to marry us, but that’s when the thoughts start to fight.
Is my love real? Before you say “I”, here are some ways to say your love is real.
This is the biggest clue: trust. A real relationship cannot exist without trust. When you trust someone without thinking well, it means that you know deep down that your love is real.
If you don’t want to leave your partner out of sight, this is an indicator that you think you can go out and do something you shouldn’t do.
Don’t be afraid to be yourself
Whether it’s waking up with a mess, failing at something in front of them, or not thinking twice about your actions or words, being your true self in front of your lover means your love is real.
If you have to be constantly hyper-conscious of what you are doing and saying, that means you have the mission to look perfect in their eyes.
True love does not seek perfection, it seeks a deep connection that is unbreakable and a connection that no other people can have.
It’s about marriage, not partying
Many people get married just to party and wear the dress. It’s sad to say, but it’s true. If your marriage is just about love, you won’t have to worry about things like that delicate engagement ringsthe size of a place, the number of flowers or post it all on social media.
Getting married is a social and public event where you invite people to witness the bond of your love. If this is something other than that, you may want to rethink why you are getting married in the first place.
There are no negative emotions
If you are in a relationship with someone and you feel worse than good, it may not be true love. When you are in a true love affair, you always feel great.
The other person wants what is best for you, and you want the same for them in return.
When your relationship starts to make you guess your self-esteem, your motives and who you are as a person, it may be more of a crush.
The Games are over
When you truly love someone and that love is reciprocal, you never have to play a game. The impulses to start a fight, to chase them on social media or send them text messages constantly. What will be replaced is trust, confidence and true love … for yourself.
Many times, we play by how we feel about ourselves and not so much about how we feel about the other person. True love takes away all our doubts.
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