Finding out if someone you’re dating is really interested in a long-term relationship can be tricky. However, there are certain signs to keep in mind that will let you know if they want to take things further, if you are having a first date, or if you have been seeing each other for a while. Here’s how to say …
They send the first message online
This is very clear. If someone sends you a message first, they are interested enough to take the initiative and send you a line.
They respond in time
Someone who answers in a matter of minutes or a couple of hours, instead of days or weeks, is interested in you. However, don’t expect instant answers, as you want any potential partner to have a life and interests outside of you.
They talk but they also give you time to talk
If someone hides the conversation or just says a word, they don’t have much genuine interest in you. A person who really wants to meet you will hear what you have to say while opening up about yourself.
They extend the date
If someone suggests you have dessert or coffee, instead of rushing out at the first opportunity, they want to spend more time with you.
They ask for another appointment
The clearest indication of whether or not you like someone is if they want to see you again. However, some people may feel a little shy and ask you in an obtuse way, so make sure you’re lit enough to realize when they’re doing it.
They realize when something changes
Do you have a new haircut or a new dress? If someone likes you, they will notice and congratulate you. A compliment means that they are paying attention to how you look and what you are wearing, which means they care about you.
They make casual references to the future
Talking about things you might do together in the future is a great sign that someone is looking to the future with you. For example, if you mention a festival and they say “We have to go together,” you can be sure you like it.
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